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7 Must-Have Kids Cooking Accessories for a Fun and Safe Kitchen Experience

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To most mothers, it is undeniably essential to teach their children the very pinnacle of domestic chores. Cooking is a task that engages both the mind and the body. Children often find it interesting to know how to create the delicious meals they eat.

When children come of age, parents often want to equal their eagerness by making the teaching process enjoyable. However, curiosity may put them in difficult situations without the proper guidance or equipment.

To avoid potential mishaps, there are several kitchen accessories you can purchase to ensure  a fun cooking experience with your kid:

Apron

The need for a cute, colorful, and small apron requires no explanation. Children are visual learners who effectively imitate the most notable things they see. An apron will prevent messes and make them genuinely feel the role of cooking because they see their parents wear it.

Although the primary function of the apron is to teach your children not to get food on their clothes, children must also learn to look bright and presentable like their parents. You can find many great shops around such as My Happy Helpers that offer quality aprons perfect for the kitchen and allow your children to retain that adorable outfit.

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Tongs

Frying is inevitable in cooking, especially when most of the food children enjoy is often dipped in oil. If the heat emerging from the pan scares your little helper, tongs help keep a safe distance, allowing them to participate in the process.

In addition, not only do tongs help with flipping the nuggets, but they also reach through boiling water. Cooking may also involve handling foods from the oven. It is the same principle of keeping away from the heat except, now, distance is being used.

Gloves

Cooking is not always cooking! Often, children will feel sudden cravings for cookies. Baking involves a lot of skinship with the ingredients, and therefore, it is vital to instill in the child’s mind the importance of wearing gloves.

The material over their hands will prevent any harmful particles from entering the food they are making. Of course, washing hands before handling the ingredients is most appropriate, but no one can monitor what else the child has touched. Therefore, using gloves is the safest way to go.

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Arm Cuffs

Arm cuffs may sound new to the parent. It is a literal cotton cuff that covers below the elbow towards the wrist and serves as protection from oil, heat, or grease. The lower region of the arm is a child’s most vulnerable part of the skin.

Arm cuffs are usually made of cotton or muslin material which easily shields the skin from unwanted substances. Muslin fabric is incredibly breathable for the skin. Therefore, it is only rightful that arm cuffs be worn to avoid scars or burns, often gained in that part of the body.

Ceramic Blade Knife

The holy grail of the cooking  process is cutting. Among many others, children want to learn the precision and sharpness of the cut, or maybe experience it. Ceramic blade knives, then, are highly recommended.

Ceramic blades are manufactured in a way that precisely cuts through food but requires great force to cut through flesh. The lightness of the design also allows children to lift and use it comfortably. Thus, if you’re looking for a safe way to let your children practice slicing, a micro-ceramic blade is the perfect tool for the job.

Stainless Steel Pan

Non-stick pans are all the rage nowadays. In addition, most households use non-stick pans for convenience due to the lack of time allotted for cooking. However, stainless steel pans are a better start for beginners as the heat is evenly regulated on its surface.

Children are yet to learn how to adjust the heat level and so they need an evenly regulated pan to assist. Of course, parents will be present to give them detailed explanations on how to do it properly; children must practice with the utmost comfort for them to enjoy the experience.

Wood Handle

Aside from using potholders, it is essential to use fool-proof items in the kitchen that eliminate every possibility of danger. Therefore, any equipment within the child’s reach must have a wooden handle; as much as possible.

Any other material except metal may suffice, but wood promotes a tighter grip and much less heat conductivity. Wood also has a brighter color contrast to the pan. Most wood handles come in beige or maple in color and will be identifiable compared to the dark gray portion of the pan, which visually engages the children to move their hands away from it.

Final Thoughts

Cooking is an exciting endeavor for children despite being quite exhausting for adults. Creating meals brings a family together as much as delectable food. But make sure to keep your kids away from the heat, the sharp edges, and the mess! Happy cooking!

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“Will You Be My Friend?” Book Review and Giveaway

Who does not love Big and Little Nutbrown Hare? They are the sweetest things and you are sure to know them from Guess How Much I Love You? Well, I have wonderful news if you love them as much as I do. Will You Be My Friend? is the delightful sequel by legendary author and illustrator duo Sam McBratney and Anita Jeram.

Little Nutbrown Hare is out exploring on his own. Off he hops along the path and through the grass until he reaches Cloudy Mountain, where something extraordinary happens: he discovers a new friend! Now the fun can really begin. Twenty-five years after we met the Nutbrown Hares, this enchanting new tale about friendship is bound to capture the hearts of Guess How Much I Love You fans—and everyone else—the world over.

The beautiful and charming illustrations in this book just make me smile from ear to ear. It is the sweetest book to share with the children and grandchildren in your life. This book makes a perfect gift for expectant parents as well. It is never too early to introduce children to books. I read to my children in utero.

We are thrilled to announce that we are having a giveaway for one copy of this hardcover book. You can read the rules and enter for your chance to win below.

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Dental Health 101: Everything You Need To Know

Oral or dental health pertains to the condition of your gums, teeth, and mouth. The goal is to prevent issues and complications such as gum disease and tooth decay as well as maintaining the overall health of your mouth. 

Good oral hygiene ensures a bright smile. But a poor one can result in dental and gum disease which can affect your overall health. While basic oral care can be maintained through daily brushing and flossing, proactively seeing a dentist at least once or twice a year can make a huge difference. 

Consulting a dentist regularly can help prevent worsening tooth and gum problems. The good thing nowadays is that booking a schedule with a licensed dentist is easier because it can be done online. Many dental clinics run official websites which cater to prospective clients online.

 

Dental problems and diseases are very common. According to the World Health Organization:

  • Oral diseases affect about 3.5 billion people around the globe. 
  • Over 530 million kids suffer from tooth decay on their primary teeth.
  • Severe periodontal diseases affect almost 10% of the world population. 

Oral Health To General Health: The Link

Dental health has risen in importance in the past years, as new studies and research discovered a connection between poor oral health and underlying systematic diseases. As it turns out, a healthy mouth and teeth can help maintain a healthy body. 

According to a study, periodontal diseases have been associated with high blood pressure, cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, stroke, respiratory diseases, and dementia, among others.

Types of Oral and Dental Diseases

The mouth and teeth are used a lot. So, it is not surprising how many things can go wrong over time, particularly if you do not take proper care of them. Without proper dental hygiene, here are the kinds of dental and oral problems you might encounter. 

  • Cavities

More commonly known as tooth decay or caries, cavities refer to areas of the tooth that are damaged or may even have holes in them. This is the most common dental problem with an estimated 2.3 billion people suffering caries on permanent teeth. 

Cavities occur when food, bacteria, and acid cover your teeth and form plaque. The acid starts to eat away your teeth at the enamel and the underlying connective tissue. Over time, this can result in permanent damage. 

  • Sensitive Teeth

Tooth sensitivity is exactly what it sounds like—discomfort or pain in the teeth as a response to specific stimuli such as cold or hot temperature. It can temporarily occur after having a filling or root canal. However, it is often the result of receding gums, gum disease, worn-down crowns or fillings, or a cracked tooth. Also, some individuals naturally have sensitive teeth due to thinner enamels. 

  • Broken or Cracked Teeth

A tooth or teeth can break or crack from chewing hard foods, sudden changes in mouth temperature, injury to the mouth, or bruxism—the habit of grinding your teeth at night. A cracked tooth can be quite painful and it is recommended that you visit your dentist right away after you get one.

  • Gingivitis

Simply called gum disease, gingivitis is the inflammation of your gums. In general, this is the result of plaque buildup on your teeth due to poor dental hygiene. It can make your gums bleed and swell when you floss or brush. Untreated gingivitis can result in a more serious infection as would be described below. 

  • Periodontitis

This severe gum infection can result in tooth loss and other serious complications.  It inflicts damage to your soft tissue, and if left untreated, can destroy the bone that supports the teeth. It can also cause an inflammatory response throughout your body. 

  • Mouth Sores

Mouth sores are bothersome and pesky. Generally, it’s usually nothing to worry about and should disappear on its own. However, if the mouth sore lasts for more than two weeks, then a dental check-up is necessary.

There are several kinds of mouth sores. The common mouth sore is known as a canker sore which occurs inside the mouth. These are not contagious and are triggered by several causes. Meanwhile, cold sores or fever blisters are caused by a virus, which occurs on the edge of your outer lips. These are contagious and, in some cases, the condition would come and go. 

Mouth sores also occur in oral thrush, a yeast infection of the mouth that can be seen in people wearing dentures, diabetics, infants, and people undergoing cancer treatments. 

  • Oral Cancer

Oral cancer develops in the tissues of the throat or mouth. This belongs to a larger group of cancers called neck and head cancers. Most cancer cells develop in the squamous cells found in the tongue, mouth, and lips. 

According to stats, oral cancer is 1 of the 3 most common cancers in some countries of the Pacific and Asia. Meanwhile, in the US, over 50,000 cases of oral cancer are diagnosed annually, occurring mostly in people over 40 years old. 

Treatments of Oral and Dental Diseases

The above-mentioned oral and dental problems are often treated by several methods. Your dentist is the only one who can recommend the best treatments for your oral problems. 

  • Cleanings

Even if you brush and floss 3 times a day, you will still need to visit your dentist for professional cleaning. This helps get rid of any tartar that you might have missed while flossing and brushing.

A dental hygienist uses a high-powered toothbrush to clean your teeth, followed by flossing and rinsing to take out any debris. 

There’s another kind of cleaning known as deep cleaning. This removes tartar and cavities from below and above the gumline which can’t be reached during regular, routine cleaning. 

  • Fluoride

After a dental cleaning, the dentist can apply a fluoride treatment in order to fight off cavities. Fluoride can help strengthen the tooth enamel and make it more resilient to acid and bacteria. 

  • Dental Sealants

These are thin, protective coatings placed on molars or back teeth, in order to help prevent cavities. Sealants protect the chewing surfaces by covering them with a protective shield, blocking out food and germs that can cause cavities. 

Dentists usually recommend a sealant for kids as soon as they get their first molar and when they get their second set of molars.

  • Fillings

Fillings are used to repair a crack, cavity, or hole in your tooth. Your dentist will first use a dental drill in order to remove the damaged (black) area of the tooth and then fill the hole with some material, including composite, cast gold, or amalgam. It is also used to repair worn-down teeth from misuses such as tooth grinding or nail-biting. 

  • Dental Crowns

A dental crown is basically a cap for a severely damaged tooth. It is used if a large part of your tooth has broken off due to injury or needs to be removed due to cavities. 

There are two kinds of dental crowns—a regular crown that fits over your natural tooth, and an implant crown that fits over an implant. Both crowns fill in the gap where the natural tooth appeared. 

There are several materials used to make dental crowns including metal, ceramic, porcelain, zirconia, composite resin, or a combination of these materials. 

  • Root Canal

A root canal is a dental procedure that involves the removal of the tooth’s soft center known as pulp. This pulp is made up of connective tissue, nerves, and blood vessels which help the tooth grow. 

If tooth decay reaches all the way inside the tooth to this pulp, a root canal can help save the tooth.  During a root canal, the pulp is removed and then replaced with a filling made of biocompatible material which is usually a combination of adhesive cement and a rubber-like material known as gutta-percha. 

It is often performed while you are under local anesthesia. 

  • Tooth Extraction

If the dentist can’t save your tooth with a root canal or other dental procedure, then it will likely be extracted. 

In addition, you may also need a tooth or surgical extraction if your third molars, commonly known as wisdom teeth, are impacted. A dentist will usually recommend that wisdom teeth be extracted if they cause inflammation, pain, or other issues. 

Also, crowding can require tooth extraction. Oftentimes, those who get braces will need one to two teeth removed in order to provide room for other teeth as they shift into place. 

  • Dental Implants

These are used to replace a missing or extracted tooth caused by tooth decay, injury, or periodontal disease. Specifically, dental implants are a replacement for teeth roots. It offers a sturdy foundation for removable or permanent replacement teeth made to look like your natural teeth. 

A dental implant is surgically drilled and placed into your jawbone. You’ll need to wait for the bones to naturally grow around the implant. After that, the dentist will customize a new artificial tooth that matches your other teeth, known as a dental crown. If replacing more than one tooth, the dentist may customize a dental bridge to fit into your mouth. The bridge consists of two abutment crowns on either side of the gap, holding the artificial teeth in place.  

Your Oral Health Care Plan

In order to prevent dental and oral health issues and skipping the expensive, and often painful dental treatment methods, you need to keep your teeth and mouth clean and fresh. With that said, here are general tips you need to consider. 

  • Proper Brushing

Everyone knows that brushing at least twice a day is one of the most important dental hygiene practices to keep teeth and mouth clean. Better yet, it is recommended to brush after every snack or meal. However, it can only be effective if people are using the proper technique. 

Proper brushing means using small circular motions, not the sawing back and forth motions. You need to brush the front, top, and back of each and every tooth. This process should take two to three minutes. 

In addition, using a hard-bristled toothbrush or brushing too hard can damage the tooth enamel and injure your gums. This can cause tooth sensitivity, gum erosion, and permanent damage to the protective enamel of your teeth. 

Experts recommend using a toothbrush with soft bristles and to change your toothbrush every three months or when the ends look frayed, whichever comes first. 

  • Don’t Neglect Flossing

Most people are too lazy to floss their teeth. But it is beneficial for your overall dental health in the long run. 

Flossing removes bacteria and plaque from between your teeth, where a toothbrush can’t reach. Not only that, but it also helps in preventing bad breath by removing food debris that has become trapped between teeth. 

Experts recommend gently pushing the floss all the way to the gumline before doing an up and down motion on the side of the tooth. Avoid snapping the floss up and down between teeth since it can cause pain and does not remove plaque effectively. 

  • Consider a Mouthwash

According to some studies, mouthwash can benefit oral and dental health. One

 revealed that mouthwash with chlorhexidine can help control gingivitis and plaque. Mouthwash can also help with bad breath. 

You can ask your dentist which is the best mouthwash for your needs. It is important to note, however, that mouthwash can’t substitute flossing or brushing. It can only complement these practices. 

  • Use Fluoride

Fluoride is a common ingredient in mouthwash and toothpaste and helps in preventing cavities. It also helps in strengthening developing teeth in kids while protecting the teeth enamel in both adults and kids. 

  • Eat A Balanced Diet

You need to eat a variety of foods but limiting those that contain starches and sugars including cakes, cookies, ice cream potato chips, and soft drinks. Such foods produce the most acids that can hasten the decay process. If you love eating snacks, it is recommended to brush your teeth afterward. 

  • Quit Smoking

Smoking can harm the immune system, making it difficult for the body to heal tissues, including tissues in the mouth. Smoking also increases your risk of oral cancer and cancers of the pharynx, larynx, and esophagus. It can also cause bad breath, gum disease, tooth discoloration, and other dental and general health problems. 

  • Visit The Dentist Regularly

Experts recommend visiting your dentist every six months for routine cleanings and checkups. You can speak with your dentist about the frequency that’s best for you. 

Conclusion

Your oral health affects more than just your teeth. It can contribute to issues in your general health as well as your comfort and overall quality of life. While you can’t always prevent every cavity that occurs, you can help prevent tooth loss or severe oral diseases if you take good care of your oral health and see a dentist often. 

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Most Important Health Areas For Developing Children

It’s no secret that the early childhood stage is a critical period for a person’s development. During that time, it’s your job as a parent to ensure they have everything they need to grow into a healthy person. Unfortunately, focusing on one health area won’t be enough. It’s not enough to feed them good food and take care of their nutrition.

There are many other important health areas for developing children, and knowing these can help parents focus their limited time and energy on the things that matter most. On that note, here’s a closer look at the most important health areas for developing children:

  • Dental Health

One of the most common diseases among children in many countries is cavities. If left untreated, it can cause a great deal of pain to your kids, and may even result in infections. In the worst-case scenario, these infections may lead to problems with their daily routine, such as eating, playing, and speaking. That’s one of the reasons why oral health is considered a window to a person’s overall health. Thus, it’s important to deal with your children’s dental health as early as possible.

You can do so by simply encouraging them to brush their teeth at least twice a day. But if they’re already in their late childhood and they haven’t practiced proper brushing up until now, it might be worth taking them to a dentist for a thorough checkup.

Furthermore, if their dental health requires treatments, you might want to consider sending them to a Pediatric Laser Dentistry practitioner for some quick fix.

  • Proper Hygiene

Hygiene is important to everyone. However, maintaining proper hygiene is especially necessary for children, and there are many reasons why. For starters, children have fewer antibodies than adults. Since their immune system is a bit weaker, proper hygiene practices such as hand washing and bathing can go a long way in preventing diseases. These can help ward off harmful microorganisms like germs and bacteria. Much like dental health, there are several things you can do to help your kids practice proper hygiene, such as:

  • Help them shower every day
  • Encourage your children to wash their hands before and after meals and even snacks
  • Always prepare clean clothes for your kids
  • Teach them to turn away when they or someone else is coughing or sneezing
  • Healthy Habits

As simple as they may be, daily habits can make the difference between a healthy and an unhealthy person. While your children are still young, it’s important to teach them the importance of healthy habits. Here are some examples:

  • Avoid spending too much time staring at the screen of electronic devices
  • Take a break every once in a while
  • Drink plenty of water

They might not seem as important as dental health or hygiene, but these little things can go a long way in improving your children’s health as they can prevent potential minor diseases.

  • Immunization

Immunization is the simple process of applying vaccines to children. For obvious reasons, this process is a very important health area for your developing kids, especially since immunization can prevent common diseases among children, such as:

  • Strep throat
  • Pink eye
  • Flu
  • Chickenpox

 Moreover, immunization not only prevents diseases but also improves your children’s well-being. If you think about it, most vaccines are free, but if your children suffer from diseases due to being unvaccinated, that would cost you a lot of money.

Immunization is not just important for your children, it’s also a crucial step to eradicating certain diseases. In fact, many diseases have now been eliminated or are already rare because of immunization programs. This broader perspective should give you another motivation to have your kids immunized. Beyond decreasing your children’s susceptibility to diseases, you’re also helping improve public health.

  • Physical Activity

Children also need physical activity to maintain their cardiovascular system’s health. Engaging in physical activity may also increase their white blood cells, which help eliminate viral infections. However, encouraging kids to exercise on their own isn’t very effective.

If you want to take care of this particular health area, you should consider scheduling family workout sessions. Exercising as a group tends to be more effective at encouraging children to do physical activities. Examples of family exercises you can do with your kids include:

  • Bike riding
  • Sports
  • Hiking
  • Camping

As active as your kids are, their bodies still have their limits. So, while physical activity is indeed important, remember to allow appropriate time for rest. Also, pairing up exercise with healthy eating—yet another important health area for developing children—will yield the best results for their overall health.

  • Healthy Eating

Healthy eating involves the consumption of all nutrients your child needs, be it from fruits, vegetables, meat, or even supplements if they can’t absorb nutrients properly. For your reference, here’s a list of nine of the most important nutrients for children:

  1. Proteins
  2. Carbohydrates
  3. Fats
  4. Iron
  5. Folate
  6. Calcium
  7. Fiber
  8. Vitamin C
  9. Vitamin A

It’s also worth noting that breakfast is the most important meal, so don’t forget to go all out on your kids’ breakfast. As a matter of fact, a study by National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) shows that children who regularly have breakfast have a better academic performance than those who don’t.

Furthermore, remember that kids often become a bit of a glutton after school, so you might want to consider preparing snacks for them when they get home. Take note that there are a few foods that you need to avoid as they may do more harm than good, especially to your children’s teeth.

Final Words

As a parent, it brings you joy to see your kids grow up as you wanted them to. But it’s inevitable to face some challenges along the way. Seeing your children get sick is one of the most difficult experiences for parents. Focusing on the most important health areas of developing children will help you prevent most minor illnesses and other health issues in the future. On that note, this guide should help you figure out which health areas to prioritize for your developing kids.

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A Mother’s Worst Nightmare – I Lost My Son Yesterday

My second child and first son came into the world on March 19th of 1989. It was Palm Sunday. I remember my focal point during my natural, drug free delivery, was an EZ Scrub box by the sink in the room. We joked about naming him EZ Scrub. We named him Raymond Charles instead. I think that was a good decision.

After Ray, I gave birth to 3 more sons. I lost 2 babies along that route. Yesterday, I lost my precious child Ray. I don’t even know how to process this.

When I got the call that I had to go and that something happened to him, I knew he was dead. Immediately, I felt a panic but then this wave of numbness came over me. I cannot explain it but to say it just took all emotion from me in every way.

I was not crying, angry, panicked, sad or anything else. I was totally calm and quiet even saying I could go alone thanks to this pandemic and we would not have to take the younger boys. That feeling stayed with me, in fact I apologized to the medical personnel for how I felt and asked them why. They explained I was in shock and denial.

After several hours I went back home with my son Michael. I hugged him during the ride. I told him, he could not leave me. He promised me he would not. I expressed my disbelief. I did not get to see my son last night. The trauma he experienced would be too much for me to bear they told me. They said I did not want to remember him like that. However due to this Covid-19  thing, we had been distancing, and so in a way, I felt it was not real.

I did not eat dinner and did not want anything, I took a shower and went to lie down in bed. My young sons were with us and grieving in their own way. My youngest Luke slept with my husband and I. His small body nestled between us until he fell asleep, and then my husband took that space and held me. I did not sleep at all.

I laid there in a state of disbelief. I wished over and over that I would wake up. About 2 weeks prior, I had a dream that both of my older sons died. It was so real, when I woke up, I was so relieved. It was a dream. I called them and told them, I needed to hear their voices. Now, I need this so badly to be a dream.

This is not the way it is supposed to go. He was a child that was like me in so many ways. Our laugh, the way we would get so hysterical we could hardly breath,  he had the cutest laugh that you could not help but love. Now, I am trying so hard to remember it, thinking if I have it on any video, worrying I am forgetting it. Just today our youngest reminded me of something I had forgotten. How could I forget these things when memories of my son are all I have left?

I used to spend so much time thinking of what song we would dance to at his wedding. Now, that will never happen. I will never see him as a husband or a father. All those dreams died with him. I want this to be a dream. I want everything to be alright, I want to wake up. Why did this have to happen?

The feeling in my stomach is so empty and sick. I feel that life has changed in such a way, I will not be able to go on. I make my living being out there. I make my living on social media and talking about life, true crime, crafts, recipes and my family. Now, I don’t even know how I would ever do that again. If I don’t, how will our family survive?

How can I let their world unravel even more because I cannot do what I need to do to provide what I do for our family? At the same time. I feel bad that I even am thinking about this, but it is the harsh reality that the world does not stop when your child dies. Every day life goes on, and people have needs that need to be met.

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I bought a book 13 years ago. It was called Roses in December. It is about a mother who lost 3 sons. I don’t know exactly why I bought it, but at the time, I had just given birth to my son Ethan. I was so scared as this book came into my field of vision in the book aisle. At the time, going through postpartum depression, I was afraid it was a premonition. One of the sons this author lost was named Ethan and it freaked me out. I told my husband about it when I arrived home and he assured me that was not the case.

Last night when I found out my son was gone, I wanted to go outside. The moon was full, I called his name, I begged for a sign. I needed to know he was here. I did not see one. The only thing I can say was remotely a sign, is that when I was speaking to family last night and dealing with medical personnel, a song was playing in the background. The lyrics, Heaven must be missing an angel, an angel child because they are here with me tonight. I felt those lyrics were telling me Ray was with me.

All day today I have been begging for a sign. I tried to sit outside and brave the pesky May bugs. I asked for a sign, the breeze picked up and the cardinal was singing his song so incredibly loud. I had to sit in my car in the driveway because the bugs were too much, I stared into the woods, in the direction of the cardinal and asked my son for a sign. I told him to give me a smack me in the face kind of sign. I had to know he was okay, I had to know he was here.

As I sat in the car, I thought of that book and went inside to find it. Even with prayers to St. Anthony, I could not, so I bought it for my Kindle on Amazon. As I sat there and read it, I could not believe that this book was all about what I was going through. I could not believe it. As I read her words, I sobbed loudly, she validated so much of what I was feeling.

Last night, as I layed in bed, I was freezing, It was caused by emotion and not temperature, no amount of blankets would remedy it. I was shivering and felt this kind of tingling in my body. At one point, I pleaded with my son to move that tingling to the back of my shoulders if he was here with me, It did go in that direction.

In a way, I did not want to fall asleep because I felt I would wake up and think everything was okay only to relieve it again. I felt such a numbness, but then in small waves the harsh reality would go in and a memory or other trigger would sweep over and I would say and know my son was dead. I would feel panicky and like I wanted to rip my own skin off to escape it. Then when I felt I could not deal with it, another wave of the totally numbness came over me.

I would go in the bathroom and keep repeating, “Ray is dead, Ray is dead, how can this be?” I called my friend in London who experienced the tremendous loss of her family this week last year. I spoke with her, at that point I was in a numb phase. The numb phase made me feel horrible too in a way. There were many other horrible thoughts that my mind went to. We torture ourselves.

I am feeling now I am going to lose everyone, even my own life. Everything I feel, I fear it is something catastrophic and because of the pandemic will be found too late. I fear that all my children and my husband will be taken and then I will die alone. I have these awful thoughts.

Back to the book, I just kept reading and sobbing. I called my older son, I fear so much losing him, I make him promise me he will be safe, drive safe, not do anything stupid due to the hurt he is feeling. Those two boys were so close, so close. He is going through unbelievable pain. I want to gather us all and go in a bubble. My daughter is coming in from NYC but because of the pandemic, we cannot even grieve this loss the way we want.

I cannot put my son in the ground, I cannot leave him there. We never talked about this because a mother is not supposed to bury her child. However in speaking with my husband and older children they feel it is the right thing and my son wants a special necklace to always have his brother with him. I want one too. I want him with me. I just cannot leave him.

I have moments of intense anger, I curse at God, I tell people that there is no God. I know that is not what I really believe, but at the time I feel it. I clench my fists, I cry out. How could his life be over like this, how? The cruelest thing is that my father died May 7th of 2006, my mother died May 8th of 2005 and now my son died on May 6th of 2020. My mother died on Mother’s Day and these dates are always around that time and add such hurt to the sorrow. I don’t even want to think about Mother’s Day this year.

I am thankful for the unbelievable amount of support I have received from our community on YouTube, the Ramblers are a blessing during this time. Yet, I am afraid it will be too much for them in the long run. No one wants to be around that mother who lost her child. No one wants to be around her because she is a reminder of their worst fear realized. So, in a way it is so bittersweet.

I do read the messages and sob. It is the same way I read that book and sob, and why I just purchased another book The Unspeakable Loss: How Do You Live After a Child Dies? Will I just buy these books and resonate and cry with them? I don’t know, I just don’t know. The biggest problem before I found out my son died was trying to firm up a deal on a much needed car. Now, that is on the back burner, and we jumped our van in order to make it down to town to meet with everyone yesterday.

I just want to get in my van and go for a drive and yet I cannot, I want to run away but I can’t. I do not want to be a member of this new club. I used to hear these things the way many of you are now, I used to thank God for the blessing of having all my children alive and well. I used to say a prayer for those lost. I thought that I would not be a member of that club even though I did worry about it. This has shattered everything for me, it not only made me a member in that club but it made me think of all the other terrible things that I may not be so lucky to escape. I am so afraid of losing everything even myself.

(I apologize for any errors, I wrote this as my thought process flowed, I cannot go over it because it hurts too much to proofread it. I just had to get this down.)

 


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Things to Do to Get Your Boiler Ready for Winter

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When winter hits, you need a comfortable and warm home. For this reason, you have to pay attention to the condition of your boiler. You can’t live with an broken or malfunctioning boiler during the winter season. If you have a boiler cover, there is nothing to worry because your engineer will see you within 24 hours after your call.

Understand the Importance of Boiler Cover

Servicing a boiler can easily be forgotten, but regular boiler maintenance and checks have numerous benefits. A defective boiler can be dangerous; therefore, you can protect yourself from different threats with a boiler cover. People who don’t have a boiler cover may find it challenging to get a qualified engineer at a reasonable price.

Remember, engineers across the country  have busy schedules in the frostiest months. If your boiler is already covered, it will be easy for you to get help and advice. By ignoring the importance of a boiler cover, you can increase the chances of carbon monoxide poisoning, gas leaks, explosions and fires.

Test Your Boiler in the Autumn

People in the UK often turn their central heating on after October. They don’t realize the possibility of faults in their boiler. For this reason, check your boiler in mild weather. There is no need to use it for a long duration, turn it on for some time to check its radiators.

To nip boiler faults in the bud, arrange for a reliable boiler service. It will help you to identify and resolve different issues before winter. Moreover, you will get a consistent supply of hot water on every freezing morning.

Timers and Thermostats thermostat

An engineer can identify issues with your timer and thermostat during an annual service. Defects and errors in your heating time can make things difficult for you. Pay attention to the condition of timer and location of the thermostat to keep your house warm.

Check Pipe Insulation

Water expands when freezes; therefore, standing water in the plumbing system can affect your pipes. For this reason, pipe insulation is necessary. Similar to loft insulation and cavity wall, it can decrease heat transfer and maintain the flow of water in pipes without any heat loss. In this way, you can avoid several winter emergencies.

Boiler Pressure

Pay attention to the pressure of the boiler. You can judge it between 1 and 1.5 (in the green or the red). Decreased pressure can affect the flow of hot water around a heating system. Remember, high pressure can make radiators bleed. Similar, too low pressure requires you to refill loop to increase it. For the best performance, the pressure of your boiler should be temperamental.

Power Flushes

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Keep your radiators clean to make things easy for your central heating system. Your plumbing engineer can clean pipes and radiators to flush sludge out of these units. After cleaning, your plumbing system will be refilled with a corrosion inhibitor and clean water. It will increase the efficiency of the central heating system.

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Homeowner Tips for Pest Prevention in the Winter

As winter approaches,  it’s time to consider the best way to prevent pests from getting into your home. Although the process of keeping pests out can be tedious, it is infinitely better than having to deal with pests in your home.

The good news is that pest prevention is easier than you think.

Contact A Professional

If you want to simply hand the reins over to someone else, call a local pest control expert and get them to come and check your home. However, while they will remove any pest infestation that already exists, they will usually only advise on the best preventative methods.

The best approach is simply to speak to them about the most likely pests you’ll be dealing with and how they recommend protecting your home.

You can then take the necessary steps, which will include the following:

Sealing Up Gaps

A mouse can get through a gap as small as a ¼ inch, ants, termites, and other pests don’t even need a gap that big!

You need to carefully inspect the outside of your home and seal any gaps. Pay particular attention to around the windows, doors, and the base of your walls.

If there is no entry point the pests won’t be able to get in.

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Edge Around Your Home

Termites can bury through the earth at the side of your home and into your foundations in order to get to the wood and start eating it. You’ll know they are active if you have small tunnels in the soil. If you fill them in they will reappear within 24-48 hours.

The most effective way of eliminating this issue is to have a concrete strip around your home, preferably at least 6” wide.

Check For Moisture

Pests need moisture and food to survive. You can eliminate these by looking around your home, inside and out, and eliminating any moisture.

Gutters collect moisture, leaking pipes allow moisture to soak into the wood and walls, and even pet drinking bowls can be an encouragement to pests.

Check your home for any water stains and trace the source of the issue. Eliminating these won’t just help to keep pests out, it can also protect your home.

Clutter

Pests need somewhere to live, that’s why they’re contemplating your house for winter. But, prior winter they may have been living in a woodpile in the garden or some other item that hasn’t been moved for a long time.

If you eliminate clutter inside and outside your home you’ll reduce the places where pests can live, making it harder for them to stay uninvited.

You’ll also find that the value of your home will go up and it’s a nicer place to live.

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Start Cleaning

A pest needs food and this is most likely to be found in the form of crumbs and other food waste that you’ve left lying around.

You need to get in the habit of cleaning your house, putting food away in sealed containers, and keeping all waste in a sealed bin. Combine this with regular vacuuming and the pests won’t have any food, they’re likely to move onto a different house.

Don’t forget your local pest control service is here to help you eliminate the entry points and attraction of your home to pests. With their support, you can enjoy a pest-free winter!

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4 Easy Tips to Fuel Your Kids for Back To School from a Registered Dietitian

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Most kids have headed back to school. Our kids started last week, even though I feel our summer was far too short and cold. In classrooms all over the country are embarking on a new year  of academics and activities. Parents like myself  know the importance of preparing snacks and lunches that will keep our kids fueled to get them through their busiest days.  Luckily, there are a handful of better-for-you snack, meal and beverage options on the market that offer nutritional benefits and taste that kids love and parents can feel great about serving. I am happy 4 easy tips to fuel your kids from RD Mitzi Dulan,

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Take your child to the grocery store with you at the beginning of the school year and allow them to choose 2-3 of their favorite fruits to have for their lunches or after school snack. Fruit is important for kids to properly fuel up and making kids part of the decision-making process is a great way to create healthy habits and try new foods!

Back To School with Juicy Juice

Try incorporating protein into your kid’s lunch and snacks. Protein is important to a child’s diet to help them grow, build muscle and keep their immune system strong. Mitzi recommends new Juicy Juice + Protein, one of the first juice-protein blends on the market for kids, as an after-school for snack for busy days.

Back To School with Juicy Juice

Make sure you include a variety of quality carbs, healthy fats, protein and fiber into your child’s after school snacks for optimal fueling. One of my favorites for kids – my teens love it too – are peanut butter (or almond butter) and banana sandwiches with honey on whole wheat bread. Pro Tip: it’s also delicious toasted!

Back To School with Juicy Juice

Lower-sugar juice options are ideal to avoid consuming too much sugar while also hydrating in a tasty way. A favorite of my two girls is new Juicy Juice Fruitifuls Organic, which is made with 45% less sugar than the leading juice while still providing half a cup of fruit in each 8 oz serving. It works well paired with nutritious meals before, during or after the school day.

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The new Juicy Juice Fruitifuls Organic, which is made with 45% less sugar than the leading juice, provides a half a cup of fruit in each 8 oz serving and is a better-for-you option that can be paired with meals before, during or after the school day. Check out Juicy Waters, Juicy Juice + Protein and Fruitifuls Organic. Please share some of your favorite tips for kid’s snacks and lunches in the comments.

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Christmas In July at the Ugly Christmas Sweater – Jumpsuit Pajama Giveaway

I know it is the last day of July, please don’t remind me. The summer is going way to fast, and I am actually heading out to jump in the lake. It’s okay, I live on one. However, I could not let July end without bringing you a special giveaway from The Ugly Christmas Sweater.

I was asked to host a giveaway for all of you. Would you like the chance to win  your choice of pajamas from their website? Who wouldn’t? Today is your lucky day then, because we are kicking off our giveaway.

The Ugly Christmas Sweater website is so easy to navigate, and you will find all your favorite characters. Whether you are looking for Pajamas, Sweaters, Sweatshirts or more, check out their inventory. I love the jumpsuit pajamas. Popular Youtuber PewDiePie even has a limited edition pair on there. Wow, life goals, to get a Mommy Ramblings limited edition pajama jumpsuit on the site! Baby steps, baby steps guys.

I did choose the Bunny jumpsuit pajamas from A Christmas Story.

These PJs are  super soft and comfy. I even did my YouTube live last night wearing them. Check it out!

Here is another video where you can see more about them:

Giveaway:

Ugly Christmas Sweater is sponsoring a giveaway on Mommy Ramblings! One lucky winner will win their choice of Pajamas on the site (no customs and subject to availability). Thank you to the Ugly Christmas Sweater for the review pair of PJs and for sponsoring this fun giveaway on Mommy Rambings. Open to US residents.

Ugly Christmas Sweater Jumpsuit Pajama Giveaway on Mommy Ramblings Rules:

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