One Big Canvas Awareness Book Tour and Giveaway

 

We are thrilled to take part in the One Big Canvas Awareness Book Tour. One Big Canvas: The Masterpiece is a delightful and insightful book that uses colorful paintbrush characters to help children understand what autism is. The book never mentions autism verbatim, instead it talks about the different ways someone with autism might act. This makes it seem not so scary or odd for kids and helps them to accept other’s differences. It is reassuring that all is okay even though some behavior is different. 

I think this book is a great resource to use with your own children or in a school setting. Tolerance and understanding is what we need to impress on kids when dealing with everyone’s uniqueness. Helping children understand and accept that not everyone is the same and that is okay, can help them embrace these differences instead of being afraid or annoyed by them.

The other book I was sent, One Big Canvas: The Molding of Clay dives a little deeper into how to interact with kindness and understanding. The paintbrushes are excited for their new friend Clay’s visit. They go about preparing a banner to welcome him. However, when Clay arrives, his loud voice is too much for Paul who covered his ears and rolled up in a ball. Clay asks the other brushes what’s wrong with Paul who kept repeating it was too loud. Reese steps up to tell Clay that loud sounds bother Paul and that they try to speak low.

Clay learns that Estelle will stop humming when she is ready and that Jerry loves boats and ships so much he talks about them over and over. When Clay gets annoyed, Reece steps in again and reminds him of the importance to be caring and kind. When Clay thinks it over, he comes back in the shape of a ship. He explains it’s for Jerry to have a fun trip. Clay does not forget to let Paul know that they will quietly float on the blue painted waves. All the brushes jump onboard and show kindness and compassion is the way.

I think both of these books help convey the message that everyone is unique and the things we may at first think are annoying may be something more. Instead of responding with anger or frustration, it can help children understand that there may be other reasons why someone hums low or says the same thing over and over.

ABOUT THE BOOKS

One Big Canvas: The Masterpiece

Written by Jay Miletsky

Illustrated by Luis Peres

Ages 3-9 | 24 Pages

Publisher: New Paige Press | ISBN-13: 978-0578496382

Publisher’s Synopsis: Join a spunky collection of paintbrushes as they set out to create a grand masterpiece.

When some of the brushes don’t cooperate, is it because they are misbehaving…or is there another reason entirely? In this story, young readers are introduced to some of the behavioral differences in their autistic peers.

Without ever mentioning any particular challenge or disability by name, this story helps children recognize and understand what autism is, and impress upon them the importance of showing kindness to those who are different, wrapped into a fun story with lighthearted, engaging characters.

They worked through the day, then stopped and admired,

the wisdom their now-painted canvas inspired:

their painting was perfect, It all meshed just fine,

with its colorful circles, and angry green line.

It was a true masterpiece, not one thing was wrong,

including the hum of their single-note song.

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One Big Canvas: The Molding of Clay

Written by Jay Miletsky

Illustrated by Luis Peres

Ages 3-9 | 24 Pages

Publisher: New Paige Press | ISBN-13: 978-0578496382

Publisher’s Synopsis: The brushes are back! Join Reese, Estelle and the rest of the gang in the art studio in another adventure as they learn the value of kindness and understanding.

When Clay comes to visit from the other side of the art studio, the brushes are excited to welcome their friend. But when a few of the brushes start acting differently, Clay needs to be reminded that it’s important to be accepting:

“Some brushes are different, so we like to remind,

it’s kind to be caring, so take care to be kind.”

Will Clay leave the brushes in frustration, or will he learn to mold his thinking as he comes to understand and accept that brushes have different abilities and challenges? Without ever mentioning autism or any particular disability, The Molding of Clay helps introduce children to the behavioral differences of their autistic peers, creating an opportunity for discussion. It helps teachers and parents impress upon them the importance of understanding, acceptance and kindness, through a fun, lighthearted story with quirky and colorful characters.

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ABOUT THE FOUNDATION

The REED Foundation for Autism is committed to providing individuals with autism the opportunity to learn, live, work and thrive at every stage of their lives. For more information, please visit https://www.reedfoundationforautism.org.

GIVEAWAY

Enter for a chance to win a ‘One Big Canvas’ book series prize pack!

One (1) grand prize winner receives:

  • A hardcover copy of One Big Canvas: The Masterpiece
  • A hardcover copy of One Big Canvas: The Molding of Clay
  • A $50 Amazon gift card

Two (2) winners receive:

  • A hardcover copy of One Big Canvas: The Masterpiece
  • A hardcover copy of One Big Canvas: The Molding of Clay

The giveaway begins April 23, 2021, at 12:01 A.M. MT, and ends May 23, 2021, at 11:59 P.M. MT.

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I have partnered with The Children’s Book Review and the REED Foundation for Autism in this book tour. While I received the books to facilitate my review, all opinions and views are 100% my own.


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Dental Health 101: Everything You Need To Know

Oral or dental health pertains to the condition of your gums, teeth, and mouth. The goal is to prevent issues and complications such as gum disease and tooth decay as well as maintaining the overall health of your mouth. 

Good oral hygiene ensures a bright smile. But a poor one can result in dental and gum disease which can affect your overall health. While basic oral care can be maintained through daily brushing and flossing, proactively seeing a dentist at least once or twice a year can make a huge difference. 

Consulting a dentist regularly can help prevent worsening tooth and gum problems. The good thing nowadays is that booking a schedule with a licensed dentist is easier because it can be done online. Many dental clinics run official websites which cater to prospective clients online.

 

Dental problems and diseases are very common. According to the World Health Organization:

  • Oral diseases affect about 3.5 billion people around the globe. 
  • Over 530 million kids suffer from tooth decay on their primary teeth.
  • Severe periodontal diseases affect almost 10% of the world population. 

Oral Health To General Health: The Link

Dental health has risen in importance in the past years, as new studies and research discovered a connection between poor oral health and underlying systematic diseases. As it turns out, a healthy mouth and teeth can help maintain a healthy body. 

According to a study, periodontal diseases have been associated with high blood pressure, cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, stroke, respiratory diseases, and dementia, among others.

Types of Oral and Dental Diseases

The mouth and teeth are used a lot. So, it is not surprising how many things can go wrong over time, particularly if you do not take proper care of them. Without proper dental hygiene, here are the kinds of dental and oral problems you might encounter. 

  • Cavities

More commonly known as tooth decay or caries, cavities refer to areas of the tooth that are damaged or may even have holes in them. This is the most common dental problem with an estimated 2.3 billion people suffering caries on permanent teeth. 

Cavities occur when food, bacteria, and acid cover your teeth and form plaque. The acid starts to eat away your teeth at the enamel and the underlying connective tissue. Over time, this can result in permanent damage. 

  • Sensitive Teeth

Tooth sensitivity is exactly what it sounds like—discomfort or pain in the teeth as a response to specific stimuli such as cold or hot temperature. It can temporarily occur after having a filling or root canal. However, it is often the result of receding gums, gum disease, worn-down crowns or fillings, or a cracked tooth. Also, some individuals naturally have sensitive teeth due to thinner enamels. 

  • Broken or Cracked Teeth

A tooth or teeth can break or crack from chewing hard foods, sudden changes in mouth temperature, injury to the mouth, or bruxism—the habit of grinding your teeth at night. A cracked tooth can be quite painful and it is recommended that you visit your dentist right away after you get one.

  • Gingivitis

Simply called gum disease, gingivitis is the inflammation of your gums. In general, this is the result of plaque buildup on your teeth due to poor dental hygiene. It can make your gums bleed and swell when you floss or brush. Untreated gingivitis can result in a more serious infection as would be described below. 

  • Periodontitis

This severe gum infection can result in tooth loss and other serious complications.  It inflicts damage to your soft tissue, and if left untreated, can destroy the bone that supports the teeth. It can also cause an inflammatory response throughout your body. 

  • Mouth Sores

Mouth sores are bothersome and pesky. Generally, it’s usually nothing to worry about and should disappear on its own. However, if the mouth sore lasts for more than two weeks, then a dental check-up is necessary.

There are several kinds of mouth sores. The common mouth sore is known as a canker sore which occurs inside the mouth. These are not contagious and are triggered by several causes. Meanwhile, cold sores or fever blisters are caused by a virus, which occurs on the edge of your outer lips. These are contagious and, in some cases, the condition would come and go. 

Mouth sores also occur in oral thrush, a yeast infection of the mouth that can be seen in people wearing dentures, diabetics, infants, and people undergoing cancer treatments. 

  • Oral Cancer

Oral cancer develops in the tissues of the throat or mouth. This belongs to a larger group of cancers called neck and head cancers. Most cancer cells develop in the squamous cells found in the tongue, mouth, and lips. 

According to stats, oral cancer is 1 of the 3 most common cancers in some countries of the Pacific and Asia. Meanwhile, in the US, over 50,000 cases of oral cancer are diagnosed annually, occurring mostly in people over 40 years old. 

Treatments of Oral and Dental Diseases

The above-mentioned oral and dental problems are often treated by several methods. Your dentist is the only one who can recommend the best treatments for your oral problems. 

  • Cleanings

Even if you brush and floss 3 times a day, you will still need to visit your dentist for professional cleaning. This helps get rid of any tartar that you might have missed while flossing and brushing.

A dental hygienist uses a high-powered toothbrush to clean your teeth, followed by flossing and rinsing to take out any debris. 

There’s another kind of cleaning known as deep cleaning. This removes tartar and cavities from below and above the gumline which can’t be reached during regular, routine cleaning. 

  • Fluoride

After a dental cleaning, the dentist can apply a fluoride treatment in order to fight off cavities. Fluoride can help strengthen the tooth enamel and make it more resilient to acid and bacteria. 

  • Dental Sealants

These are thin, protective coatings placed on molars or back teeth, in order to help prevent cavities. Sealants protect the chewing surfaces by covering them with a protective shield, blocking out food and germs that can cause cavities. 

Dentists usually recommend a sealant for kids as soon as they get their first molar and when they get their second set of molars.

  • Fillings

Fillings are used to repair a crack, cavity, or hole in your tooth. Your dentist will first use a dental drill in order to remove the damaged (black) area of the tooth and then fill the hole with some material, including composite, cast gold, or amalgam. It is also used to repair worn-down teeth from misuses such as tooth grinding or nail-biting. 

  • Dental Crowns

A dental crown is basically a cap for a severely damaged tooth. It is used if a large part of your tooth has broken off due to injury or needs to be removed due to cavities. 

There are two kinds of dental crowns—a regular crown that fits over your natural tooth, and an implant crown that fits over an implant. Both crowns fill in the gap where the natural tooth appeared. 

There are several materials used to make dental crowns including metal, ceramic, porcelain, zirconia, composite resin, or a combination of these materials. 

  • Root Canal

A root canal is a dental procedure that involves the removal of the tooth’s soft center known as pulp. This pulp is made up of connective tissue, nerves, and blood vessels which help the tooth grow. 

If tooth decay reaches all the way inside the tooth to this pulp, a root canal can help save the tooth.  During a root canal, the pulp is removed and then replaced with a filling made of biocompatible material which is usually a combination of adhesive cement and a rubber-like material known as gutta-percha. 

It is often performed while you are under local anesthesia. 

  • Tooth Extraction

If the dentist can’t save your tooth with a root canal or other dental procedure, then it will likely be extracted. 

In addition, you may also need a tooth or surgical extraction if your third molars, commonly known as wisdom teeth, are impacted. A dentist will usually recommend that wisdom teeth be extracted if they cause inflammation, pain, or other issues. 

Also, crowding can require tooth extraction. Oftentimes, those who get braces will need one to two teeth removed in order to provide room for other teeth as they shift into place. 

  • Dental Implants

These are used to replace a missing or extracted tooth caused by tooth decay, injury, or periodontal disease. Specifically, dental implants are a replacement for teeth roots. It offers a sturdy foundation for removable or permanent replacement teeth made to look like your natural teeth. 

A dental implant is surgically drilled and placed into your jawbone. You’ll need to wait for the bones to naturally grow around the implant. After that, the dentist will customize a new artificial tooth that matches your other teeth, known as a dental crown. If replacing more than one tooth, the dentist may customize a dental bridge to fit into your mouth. The bridge consists of two abutment crowns on either side of the gap, holding the artificial teeth in place.  

Your Oral Health Care Plan

In order to prevent dental and oral health issues and skipping the expensive, and often painful dental treatment methods, you need to keep your teeth and mouth clean and fresh. With that said, here are general tips you need to consider. 

  • Proper Brushing

Everyone knows that brushing at least twice a day is one of the most important dental hygiene practices to keep teeth and mouth clean. Better yet, it is recommended to brush after every snack or meal. However, it can only be effective if people are using the proper technique. 

Proper brushing means using small circular motions, not the sawing back and forth motions. You need to brush the front, top, and back of each and every tooth. This process should take two to three minutes. 

In addition, using a hard-bristled toothbrush or brushing too hard can damage the tooth enamel and injure your gums. This can cause tooth sensitivity, gum erosion, and permanent damage to the protective enamel of your teeth. 

Experts recommend using a toothbrush with soft bristles and to change your toothbrush every three months or when the ends look frayed, whichever comes first. 

  • Don’t Neglect Flossing

Most people are too lazy to floss their teeth. But it is beneficial for your overall dental health in the long run. 

Flossing removes bacteria and plaque from between your teeth, where a toothbrush can’t reach. Not only that, but it also helps in preventing bad breath by removing food debris that has become trapped between teeth. 

Experts recommend gently pushing the floss all the way to the gumline before doing an up and down motion on the side of the tooth. Avoid snapping the floss up and down between teeth since it can cause pain and does not remove plaque effectively. 

  • Consider a Mouthwash

According to some studies, mouthwash can benefit oral and dental health. One

 revealed that mouthwash with chlorhexidine can help control gingivitis and plaque. Mouthwash can also help with bad breath. 

You can ask your dentist which is the best mouthwash for your needs. It is important to note, however, that mouthwash can’t substitute flossing or brushing. It can only complement these practices. 

  • Use Fluoride

Fluoride is a common ingredient in mouthwash and toothpaste and helps in preventing cavities. It also helps in strengthening developing teeth in kids while protecting the teeth enamel in both adults and kids. 

  • Eat A Balanced Diet

You need to eat a variety of foods but limiting those that contain starches and sugars including cakes, cookies, ice cream potato chips, and soft drinks. Such foods produce the most acids that can hasten the decay process. If you love eating snacks, it is recommended to brush your teeth afterward. 

  • Quit Smoking

Smoking can harm the immune system, making it difficult for the body to heal tissues, including tissues in the mouth. Smoking also increases your risk of oral cancer and cancers of the pharynx, larynx, and esophagus. It can also cause bad breath, gum disease, tooth discoloration, and other dental and general health problems. 

  • Visit The Dentist Regularly

Experts recommend visiting your dentist every six months for routine cleanings and checkups. You can speak with your dentist about the frequency that’s best for you. 

Conclusion

Your oral health affects more than just your teeth. It can contribute to issues in your general health as well as your comfort and overall quality of life. While you can’t always prevent every cavity that occurs, you can help prevent tooth loss or severe oral diseases if you take good care of your oral health and see a dentist often. 

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Most Important Health Areas For Developing Children

It’s no secret that the early childhood stage is a critical period for a person’s development. During that time, it’s your job as a parent to ensure they have everything they need to grow into a healthy person. Unfortunately, focusing on one health area won’t be enough. It’s not enough to feed them good food and take care of their nutrition.

There are many other important health areas for developing children, and knowing these can help parents focus their limited time and energy on the things that matter most. On that note, here’s a closer look at the most important health areas for developing children:

  • Dental Health

One of the most common diseases among children in many countries is cavities. If left untreated, it can cause a great deal of pain to your kids, and may even result in infections. In the worst-case scenario, these infections may lead to problems with their daily routine, such as eating, playing, and speaking. That’s one of the reasons why oral health is considered a window to a person’s overall health. Thus, it’s important to deal with your children’s dental health as early as possible.

You can do so by simply encouraging them to brush their teeth at least twice a day. But if they’re already in their late childhood and they haven’t practiced proper brushing up until now, it might be worth taking them to a dentist for a thorough checkup.

Furthermore, if their dental health requires treatments, you might want to consider sending them to a Pediatric Laser Dentistry practitioner for some quick fix.

  • Proper Hygiene

Hygiene is important to everyone. However, maintaining proper hygiene is especially necessary for children, and there are many reasons why. For starters, children have fewer antibodies than adults. Since their immune system is a bit weaker, proper hygiene practices such as hand washing and bathing can go a long way in preventing diseases. These can help ward off harmful microorganisms like germs and bacteria. Much like dental health, there are several things you can do to help your kids practice proper hygiene, such as:

  • Help them shower every day
  • Encourage your children to wash their hands before and after meals and even snacks
  • Always prepare clean clothes for your kids
  • Teach them to turn away when they or someone else is coughing or sneezing
  • Healthy Habits

As simple as they may be, daily habits can make the difference between a healthy and an unhealthy person. While your children are still young, it’s important to teach them the importance of healthy habits. Here are some examples:

  • Avoid spending too much time staring at the screen of electronic devices
  • Take a break every once in a while
  • Drink plenty of water

They might not seem as important as dental health or hygiene, but these little things can go a long way in improving your children’s health as they can prevent potential minor diseases.

  • Immunization

Immunization is the simple process of applying vaccines to children. For obvious reasons, this process is a very important health area for your developing kids, especially since immunization can prevent common diseases among children, such as:

  • Strep throat
  • Pink eye
  • Flu
  • Chickenpox

 Moreover, immunization not only prevents diseases but also improves your children’s well-being. If you think about it, most vaccines are free, but if your children suffer from diseases due to being unvaccinated, that would cost you a lot of money.

Immunization is not just important for your children, it’s also a crucial step to eradicating certain diseases. In fact, many diseases have now been eliminated or are already rare because of immunization programs. This broader perspective should give you another motivation to have your kids immunized. Beyond decreasing your children’s susceptibility to diseases, you’re also helping improve public health.

  • Physical Activity

Children also need physical activity to maintain their cardiovascular system’s health. Engaging in physical activity may also increase their white blood cells, which help eliminate viral infections. However, encouraging kids to exercise on their own isn’t very effective.

If you want to take care of this particular health area, you should consider scheduling family workout sessions. Exercising as a group tends to be more effective at encouraging children to do physical activities. Examples of family exercises you can do with your kids include:

  • Bike riding
  • Sports
  • Hiking
  • Camping

As active as your kids are, their bodies still have their limits. So, while physical activity is indeed important, remember to allow appropriate time for rest. Also, pairing up exercise with healthy eating—yet another important health area for developing children—will yield the best results for their overall health.

  • Healthy Eating

Healthy eating involves the consumption of all nutrients your child needs, be it from fruits, vegetables, meat, or even supplements if they can’t absorb nutrients properly. For your reference, here’s a list of nine of the most important nutrients for children:

  1. Proteins
  2. Carbohydrates
  3. Fats
  4. Iron
  5. Folate
  6. Calcium
  7. Fiber
  8. Vitamin C
  9. Vitamin A

It’s also worth noting that breakfast is the most important meal, so don’t forget to go all out on your kids’ breakfast. As a matter of fact, a study by National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) shows that children who regularly have breakfast have a better academic performance than those who don’t.

Furthermore, remember that kids often become a bit of a glutton after school, so you might want to consider preparing snacks for them when they get home. Take note that there are a few foods that you need to avoid as they may do more harm than good, especially to your children’s teeth.

Final Words

As a parent, it brings you joy to see your kids grow up as you wanted them to. But it’s inevitable to face some challenges along the way. Seeing your children get sick is one of the most difficult experiences for parents. Focusing on the most important health areas of developing children will help you prevent most minor illnesses and other health issues in the future. On that note, this guide should help you figure out which health areas to prioritize for your developing kids.

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These Are My Earth Day Book Picks for April 22nd

If you know me, you know I love books. Earth day is coming up. on April 22nd.  I enjoy sharing books with my kids. Check out my picks for this Earth Day and any day. These books are full of information about plants, trees, fungi and ways kids can keep the planet clean and healthy.

Check out my book  list below and watch the video for an in-depth look into the titles I have chosen.

Mommy Ramblings’ Earth Day Book Picks:

  1. Kids Fight Plastic
  2. Bruno The Beekeeper
  3. Zee Grows A Tree
  4. A World of Plants 
  5. Creature Features Oceans
  6. Fungiarium 


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Areas of Your Home to Check Regularly

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When you invest money in buying a home, you obviously want to look after that investment. This means taking steps to ensure the property stays in good condition and making sure that any damage is repaired and dealt with as quickly as possible. It is important to remember that some areas of your home can pose more of a threat to the condition of your home than others, so you should spend some time checking home health by focusing on these areas.

By taking the time to check your home and keep an eye on key areas of concern, you can save yourself a lot of headaches, time, and money over the longer term. In addition, you can ensure your home remains a safe and comfortable place for you and your loved ones, and you can reduce hazards as well as maintain the aesthetic appeal of your property. In this article, we will look at some of the areas of your home you should check on a regular basis.

What Are the Areas of Concern?

The areas of concern at your home will depend on the type of property you live in. Below are some of the areas you should keep an eye on if you want to protect your property:

The Basement of the Property

Keeping an eye on the basement of the property is very important, as this is one area that can cause a lot of issues around your home. So, if you have a basement, make sure you check it regularly for any signs of damage or issues. Also, consider getting it waterproofed, as this will provide extra protection for your as well as the basement itself. By doing this, you can avoid basement-related issues such as the spread of mold, dampness throughout your home, pest problems, and bad odors.

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Crawl Space Under the Home

If you have a crawl space under your home, it is vital that you check regularly for any issues, and that you keep it clean and in good shape. If you neglect this space and let it fall into a bad state, it can cause many issues such as pest infestations, damage to the wooden supports of your home, and low air-quality in your property, to name but a few. Speak to an expert about getting it encapsulated for protection, and make sure any repairs are carried out in a timely manner.

Foundation Issues

One of the other things you have to check is the condition of the foundation, and the easiest way to do this is to look out for signs of foundation damage. This could include uneven floors stemming from sinking concrete, cracked walls and floors, movement in the walls causing bulging and bowing, and misalignment resulted in windows and doors getting jammed. If you feel there may be an issue, get in touch with an expert to do a proper assessment.

These are some of the areas of your home that you should keep a close eye on.

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The Hidden Dangers Of Not Taking Care Of Your Dental Health

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Good oral health is not just about having a pretty smile. Most people understand they should take care of their teeth so they don’t become chipped or decayed which would look terrible. However, there is a more important reason to make sure your teeth are in good health.

Oral health is totally linked to your overall health. In other words, if you have bad teeth, you are increasing the odds of having other health problems down the line. It may seem like a stretch of the imagination, but when your teeth are in bad shape, you can end up with a myriad of illnesses. These illnesses could really impact your quality of life and possibly worse. In this article, I will go over several of the things to keep in mind about your dental health so you can avoid other health problems later on.

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Cardiovascular disease

Our gums have a lot of small capillary veins very close to the surface. This is why taking oral medication under the tongue is so effective. The medication gets absorbed quickly into the blood which acts as a sort of high speed delivery system. This is great when you need quick relief from pain or other things, but bad news if you have a tooth infection. This infected tooth is full of bacteria which is easily brought into your circulatory system and can grow to be a major problem.

A blood infection can be very serious and cause heart problems. Over time, this bacteria can cause plaque to build up on the arteries which increases the chance of heart attack or stroke. If you have been putting off getting that toothache checked out, this is the time to make an appointment with smilovitsdds.com or whoever else is your local dentist. You shouldn’t wait until the problem gets worse.

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Diabetes

Diabetes is a growing concern all across the Western world. From a poor diet to a sedentary lifestyle, the number of people with diabetes is growing. We aren’t doing ourselves any favors by adding to the problem due to poor dental health.

Gum disease is easy to get when we aren’t taking good care of your teeth. And this leads to higher than normal sugar levels in the blood. Not only that, but infections are far more serious for people with diabetes than people without. It is very hard for the body to ward off infections.

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Pregnancy complications

Pregnancy can make it very difficult to take care of your teeth even when you do everything right. The changes in the body can take away a lot of the minerals and nutrients that your teeth need to stay healthy. As a result many pregnant women lose teeth. Gingivitis has been shown to be a cause of premature birth so the issue isn’t just a less than perfect smile. It can have serious side effects. Even low birth weight can sometimes be attributed to gum disease or tooth infections.

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Discover SMITCO For Value and Quality

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Free Samples, Coupons and Sweeps

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YOU Don’t Know Me and YOU Don’t Know My Grief

As a YouTube creator, I am no stranger to the horrible trolls who have targeted me, even called a fake SWAT on me that could have had ended tragically and left me with PTSD.

When I lost my oldest son unexpectedly on May 6th of this year, it did not take long for the ugliest of trolls to attack. They are narcissistic individuals without empathy. They made jokes about my son and about my grief.

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Nothing was off limits for them. Even though attacking vulnerable individuals and bullying is against YouTube’s Terms of Service, they continued their disgusting attacks relentlessly. Those that participated on panels and in the live chats were no better. They obviously agreed with what was going on because they took no stand against it. You know what they say about birds that flock together.

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It seems my channel name gets them good views and they watch me obsessively, to the point of reiterating every detail, and then insanely saying they don’t watch. Their words come from a place of intense jealousy and reflect everything that is wrong with them. They talk about me being boring, monotone, ugly, abusive, money-hungry, a sociopath and other profanities. These are all adjectives that describe them to a T. They say I have no sense of humor and then try and copy the exact gags and fun stuff we do.

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Their jealousy stems from the fact that we have the best community on YouTube, filled with the most loving and caring people around. The Rambler community has held me up and loved me during the darkest hours of my life. We even created a grief group and a grief panel to help and support others.

Grief, especially grief from losing a child does not have a formula. Everyone experiences it differently. There is no right or wrong way to grieve the loss of your child. Yet, these so called experts, including those that don’t even have children, want to tell me how to grieve.

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One particularly elderly woman who labels herself a widow, went on a disgusting rant about me. I had never even heard of this woman when a video she made showed up in my YouTube feed because she used my channel name in her title.

This woman described herself as she was supposedly talking about me, saying I was boring, monotone, unattractive, had no sense of humor, dry lips and a Donald Trump mouth. She said I had crooked teeth (better call my orthodontist) and that they made my mouth hang wrong. She said that she could just see I had terrible breath. Everything she said described her. That is how it is with narcissists, they take everything that is wrong with them and project it onto others.

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Beyond that, she wanted to tell everyone that I never cared about my son. She said I should be curled up in a ball in the corner of my room. She said she never saw me shed a tear, that when I cried there were no tears. She said that I did not love my kids, never hugged them and was abusive to them and my husband.

She compared her grief from losing her husbands to my grief from losing my son. She has no right to assume the grief is anywhere near the same, because it is not. Losing a child is unnatural, and that is why their is no name unlike the name of widow or widower for a person who loses a spouse.

Don’t you dare judge me in my grief out of your dripping jealousy. How can you call me money-hungry when I have never asked for a dime from our community? Her and her other trolling friends seem to know every detail of my life, mention I have 2 homes etc. They are dripping with jealousy, as they are the ones who are the so called ebeggers. They use my name and the channel name to get views and it is obvious. How sad, they cannot get views on their own content.

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So for all you despicable trolls, leave me alone, don’t talk about my children, don’t talk about my life, leave me alone. Most especially don’t talk about my grief, because you don’t know anything about it.

All you see is what I choose to show you and nothing else. You and I have never met in person, I have never spoken to you on the phone or through email. You know nothing about me or what I am going through.

It is my hope that shining a light on this detrimental behavior will capture the attention of the people who can help me reach YouTube and hold them accountable to their TOS.

Behavior like this can cause vulnerable individuals to do something tragic to themselves. It is sick and twisted and against the law (cyber bullying, cyber stalking, harassment) as well as against YouTube’s own TOS.

Leave us all alone with your ignorant rants. I know you are sick of looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing all of your flaws. You feel better when you go on rants and project all your own insecurities and flaws onto others.

The reason you are not successful and need to put other creators in the title of your videos is because you attract everything you put out there. The only people who want to be with you are people who share that darkness and hate in their souls.

In closing, I want to thank the Mommy Ramblings Community for their continued support of me and my family. We have truly grown over the years and have become a loving family of our own.

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I do not know how I would have survived if it had not been for the love and support from all of you. We genuinely care and love each other, and that is the biggest thing these individuals are jealous of. They don’t have it, because they don’t know how to give true love and support to others. They try to pretend they love and care about people,  but it is phony. They are narcissists, sociopaths and even psychopaths who love only themselves and have no empathy for others.

In closing, I will say it again to these heartless bullies, LEAVE ME AND OUR COMMUNITY ALONE!!!

 

 


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That Call – The One That Changed My Life

It will be 7-weeks in a few hours that I got that life-changing call. The call that separated my life into the before and after. That call that made me a member in a club no one wants to be a member of. The call that forever changed our family, our dynamic, our existence and our faith. The call that gives me chills whenever I think of it. The call that made my body go into a state of numbness that scared me then, and scares me still. The call that no mother should ever get. The call that broke my heart. The call that shattered my world.

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In the past week, things hit me that I was totally numb for. I think back to the funeral home. When it was time to close the casket and prepare to go to church, I did not yell, scream or cry for them not to close it. Now, I have terror thinking of that. I am screaming in my mind now, don’t take him away, don’t close the casket. My beautiful boy, my baby, my son, don’t take him away.

Don’t deny me the opportunity to touch his hand, stroke his thick hair, kiss his face. Don’t deny me the chance to gaze on the dimple in his chin, don’t deny me the feeling of putting my hand over his. I should not have to do this. At times it haunts me as I try to remember the small café au lait spot on his leg or what his feet looked like.  I search for photos or my mind to remember. I should not have to do this. My son should be here. It is so unfair, so unjust.

The numbness lifts for minutes at a time, I can not handle more. I am thankful for that blanket of numbness that covers me and shields me from the unbearable pain.  Time goes on, it is a painful reminder of  the last time I heard my son tell me he loved me.  That was 7-weeks ago when he said that to me. I tell him every day how much I love him.

I will never stop loving him, never stop missing him, never stop looking for signs of him. I will never be ungrateful for all the signs he sends. The things he is making the Eagle and the cardinal do are nothing short of miraculous. I will never take them for granted. I pray he sends them to me.


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